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10 Ways to Disassociate When You're Tired of Everyone
10 Ways to Disassociate When You're Tired of Everyone
Let's talk about the rain.
Attendance is going to dip this season, and it's not because your event isn't good. It's raining. People are tired. Their kid has a cold. Despite having a mudroom, somehow mud is still tracked all over the house. They've already been out once today for work or other obligations, and the idea of getting dressed again, being soggy, grabbing an umbrella, grabbing a jacket, just doesn't sound that appealing. Even when they like you and they support the cause.
I am also that person. I RSVP with a yes, with full sincerity. As the day approaches, I begin to wish there was a "definitely maybe" confirmation option.
Here's what you should stop doing: taking it personally. A rainy-season dip in turnout is not a referendum on your planning committee or how likable your board is. It's weather. This is also shaping up to be one of the stronger El Niño seasons in a while, so it's worth planning for rather than hoping it doesn't apply to you.
A few things that have actually helped:
Some things are going to feel smaller and quieter this season. That's not a reflection of you or your community. It's a reflection of the sky. Plan for it, work with it, don't apologize for it, and don't let a soggy turnout convince you the work doesn't matter.
It does. Even when it's raining.
- LP
Damp But Determined